The Big Bone Lie - Don't Believe the Hype!

Millions of Americans have been diagnosed with osteopenia and it may not be true!

Our bones, designed to carry us upright for our entire lifetime, naturally build-up and break-down along the way. Osteoblasts are responsible for the making of bone, and osteoclasts remove old bone as those minerals are used elsewhere in the body.

When we are young and growing, the build-up of bone exceeds the break-down. By the time we reach our thirties, bones are considered to be at peak density. As we progress towards our late thirties and early forties (and the second half of life) the break-down of bone exceeds the build-up.

This is a normal part of the aging process, but we’ve been warned that it’s not.

As a result, doctors prescribe biphosphonate drugs like Fosamax, Boniva, Actonel and others to help “build bone density,” but they come with a slew of undesirable side effects; ulcers, liver damage, bone fractures, vision loss, renal failure, and jaw bone decay.[1] Biphosphonate drugs work by stopping the break-down process of old bone. This in turn, STOPS the formation of new bone. Only bone loss (called resorption) can initiate healthy new bone formation (called deposition or formation).

Our body is brilliant – it won’t create new bone if old bone is not breaking down. Fosamax and other bone drugs cause old bone tissue to pile up, making bones seem denser, but they are actually more brittle. Do not get caught in this bone scam! Pharmaceutical drugs do not create healthy bones.

Another BIG misconception is that we need excessive amounts of calcium. Bones are made up of approximately 35% latticed protein (collagen matrix), that gives bones their flexibility and 65% mineralized collagen that gives bones their strength[2]. Overdosing on calcium supplements contributes to kidney stones, gallstones, and calcification of the soft tissue. Studies show that women with the highest bone density, obtained through calcium supplementation, have a 300% higher risk of breast cancer.[3] Holy crap! Don’t take calcium supplements.

As long as we are alive and breathing, we can rebuild healthy bone tissue by eliminating substances and activities that contribute to bone loss:


ALCOHOL – alcohol, in excess, depletes magnesium and lowers production of parathyroid hormone. According to Dr. Miriam Nelson, author of Strong Women, Strong Bones, consuming more than seven alcoholic drinks per week is associated with an increased risk of low bone density, fractures and falls. And, if we drink those seven drinks in one day the possibility of falling is pretty darn good!

CAFFEINE – caffeine increases urinary secretion of calcium. Soda, coffee, soft drinks, tea, chocolate and some prescription medications contain caffeine.

LACK OF EXERCISE – if we don’t use our bones in some type of daily exercise and apply pressure to them, we will lose them. “That’s why astronauts lose bone mass in space. Bones are meant to resist gravity.”[5]

PROTEIN – we need protein to build collagen for flexibility and to maintain muscle and bone strength. An excessive intake of protein (Atkins or Paleo type diet) can increase urinary excretion of calcium, and an insufficient intake (Vegan type diet) can inhibit vitamin D absorption, weakening the entire structure. Balance is the key.

PRESCRIPTION MEDICATION – blood thinners, thyroid medication, chemotherapy, statin drugs, anti depressants and heartburn medicine all contribute to bone loss.

SODA – soda contains phosphoric acid. The body uses calcium (alkaline mineral) to balance the acidity created by soda.

SUGAR – High sugar intake increases the urinary excretion of zinc, calcium, magnesium, chromium and copper. This large loss of nutrients can contribute to osteoporosis, arthritis and many other diseases as well.

EATING OUT OF SEASON – Inhibits vitamin D absorption, weakens the kidneys and bones.


The bones need more than just calcium for health and strength. Nutrients essential to bone health include magnesium, calcium, boron, potassium, copper, manganese, zinc, Vitamin K, C, D, E, folic acid, sulphur rich foods, amino acids and protein:

  • Vitamin K helps produce osteocalcin that aids bone formation. Good sources of K are broccoli, Brussels sprouts, collard greens, kale, asparagus, and liver.
  • Sulfur rich food is needed for the synthesis of collagen.[6] Sources include eggs, cabbage, fish, garlic, Brussels sprouts, kale and onions.
  • Vitamin A, D, E & K are all fat-soluble. Diets too low in fat or fat-free do not produce adequate bile and inhibits absorption of these vitamins.
  • Zinc, essential for protein synthesis and formation of collagen, is found in meat, poultry, seafood, and eggs.
  • The body needs vitamin D to absorb calcium. The best source of vitamin D comes from the sun. Give yourself the gift of twenty minutes of daily sun exposure, without sunscreen.
  • Bone density is dependant on weight bearing exercises like walking, yoga, strength training, and running. When the body gets regular exercise it deposits minerals in the bones. Take a hike and get moving!
  • And, bone broths. I cannot emphasize enough the importance of good old-fashioned bone stock to help strengthen bones.

Many years ago I had a student who was diagnosed with osteoporosis in her hip and walked with a limp. She was only 28 years old and told me she had been eating a vegan diet since she was 13.

I advised her to begin drinking bone stocks every day. She said she couldn’t eat anything that came from an animal. I told her I understood where she was coming from, (I used to be vegan), and advised that she listen to her body and remain open to the possibility of making some changes to support her health on a deeper level.

The following week I received an email from her. She said she was shopping for produce at her local farmer’s market and one of the farmers asked why she was limping. She told him about her bone loss condition. He said, “Hold on! I’ll be right back.” He hopped into the back of his truck and came back with a bag filled with beef bones. He handed them to her and said, “Boil these in water and drink the liquid every day.”

She said, “First, YOU tell me to drink bone stock, then a farmer in my hometown in Ohio tells me the same thing. I have to listen.” And, she did. It took one-year to heal her condition.

health-is-wealthBone stocks are so important to rebuilding strength and health that I have an entire chapter dedicated to them in my book, Health is Wealth – Make a Delicious Investment in You.

Make no bones about it; sunlight, adequate exercise and proper nutrition are essential to bone health. There are so many delicious ways to strengthen your body.

Want to learn more ways to support the health of your beautiful bones?

Meet me LIVE in the kitchen to cook up some old fashioned bone-building recipes! Details here: Cooking for Bone Health


[2] Food & Healing, AnnMarie Colbin



[5] Prescription for Nutritional Healing, Phyllis A. Balch, CNC, Penguin Books 2006, pg. 39